Monday, July 26, 2010

I LOVE YOU

NOTE: The content in this article is not meant to disturb one's perspective regarding love. This article mainly highlights the transformation in perspective of a fictitious guy about love..

These three words above mean a lot to many and for some it useless!!!!

On a typical day, I happened to meet my childhood pals after a long time and all of them were into engg like me and they changed drastically right from their appearance to tone.... and also the way they look at relationships....

One of my friend in course of talk asked me whether I'm into any love affair.
I replied......"Dude, I don't know what love is".
My friend : C'mn dude, it as if an 18+ saying," I don't know what BF is".... just give a try dude...

love= friendship+sex (it was my perspective then!.. it's not to hurt any)

My friend: Dude, u have an extra straight forward approach to it. Hope one day u will find the real meaning of it.

I could not guess what he was trying to say. But the day to realize what love is? was waiting for me. There were three instances which taught me about love and I am giving the first incident.

INCIDENT :
As every good thing starts with my mom(in my case) even here she made me felt what love is....
I met with an accident on the same day and suffered with major injuries (I still remember that night accident ). Accident cannot frighten one if he is alone.. it shows it's true colors when u r with ur beloved and dear ones and now it was my sis turn. I could vividly see the blood oozing from her nose as soon the incident happened. It made me feel the real pain and then i sensed what love was towards my sis and when i drove back to home on bike my hands were shivering all through. That night was hell and as there were no hospitals near by, mom helped us with the first aid. As the Spirit was applied on the wounds, I thought "which f*ck*r invented this spirit" (as my mom was there i could not say it out). My mom then felt the pain(as I could see tears in her eyes ) twice of mine, then I felt her love towards me even though she showed the same love all from my childhood.
This incident erased my perspective reg love and it turned to be......

love=family+pain of others (situational approach towards love)

My understanding of love grew with the other two incidents that happened. They made me felt how introvert i was regarding the universally lovable word LOVE.
Where was
spark in the article all through.... It was LOVE that transformed me and created yet again the same spark in me.
Wait for I LOVE YOU 2 for the other two incidents which completely defined what I LOVE YOU means....

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