In a country like India, there are many things to be considered before you decide to fall in love. This is absurd given love is natural feeling every living being experiences.
This perception distorts the way we handle relationships. Usually one gives preference to career, to work over personal and family life. On the contrary, they can coexist very well when we understand that love matures our understanding of how one person relates to other.
The maturity displaces notion of beauty, and body which we daily experience through images that run on media. It also upholds literally the notion that love is blind. It is blind because it connects each other with language of hearts.
Language of hearts is not a metaphor, it means speaking to human side of each other. Acknowledging true emotions without the need for social approval. It appreciates the other person for what they are and it excites both to be genuinely interested in each other.
Genuine interest fights to overcome differences, find commonalities, and seek to improve position of each other. Such personal development is basis for developing into a mature adult, and bring up caring family.
Family is really a tricky concept. They are the ones who usually oppose love yet all but embody love. This is because that each family can be seen as string of relationships with some definite expectations. This expectations is what causes mental block, and hinders family from realising love of one for new member.
The entry of new member is thus faced with opposition and naturally so. It is thus important to be open in relationships. Being open upholds fundamental value of being truthful which is basis of trust. Trust is what builds relations and relations is what defines family.
Love, family are two experiences which every one experiences. Yet some fail to acknowledge their role. The insight provided here seeks to serve two purposes- to love and be loved. Hope it makes it clear what it means to fall in love
